Asian boys dating black girls
Somewhere through your childhood, you had some bad experiences where a white woman turned you down, VICIOUSLY stomped all over your heart and you’ve been scarred from that moment onwards.
Your close group of yellow brothers banded around you in defiant support of the devastation and pain inflicted upon you with comforting words like: And from there, your lifelong limiting belief was formed.
Men seemingly open to dating “anyone and everyone” eventually include a “no black women” addendum. The online dating world is also stacked against black women and Asian men.
Women who state they only want to find a nice, kind, man say that they have no real physical preferences … According to Christian Rudder’s OKCupid blog, stats from 2014 show that 82 per cent of non-black men on OKCupid show some bias against black women.
Now, I could sit here and tell you a thousand times over that your limited ability to date a white woman has NOTHING to do with the colour of your skin and EVERYTHING to do with the fact that you simply don’t help her feel empowered, free, loved, beautiful, and appreciated but that’s not going to do anyone any good.
Your beliefs are formed with evidence and they’re only going to be changed with evidence.
“The experience on other sites, especially those that cater to people of colour, may be different, but even people of colour and black people are not immune from anti-blackness. And we’re going to have to work hard at being inclusive and open-minded in dating and in every other aspect of life if we’re set on making any progress at all.As you’re watching it, pay very close attention to the kind of Man he is and have a guess of how he makes women feel. You might realise exactly why you’re not attracting women and what you need to change. It’s not because you’re Asian, it’s simply because of the kind of Man you’re being around white women. So are you racist if you aren’t open to dating everyone? This is a common stereotype but still has some basis in our experience.
(DISCLAIMER: I’m half Chinese and this is written tongue in cheek.