Malay girl dating chinese guy
“I tell myself I am so happy and lucky to have this girl as my wife. “Now we celebrate Chinese New Year and Hari Raya together.“I want to give her everything, no matter what it takes, I will give her all that I can. “Our daughter look so cute wearing baju kurung and Chinese qi pao.She always kept asking me about my future plans and she mentioned the words, family, kids, and marriage a couple of times.Even though she was really attractive (which is pretty rare for Indian women), I was not ready for that.“She deserves all the love from me, my daughter and my wife. “Just to share with you, love does not only mean the race or religion.“Don’t be judgmental toward inter racial love, its about compromising. “All that matters is that those involved are willing to make the sacrifices necessary to be together. Time flies and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together.advatanges;1; dating a malay girl could save more money than dating with a chinese girl(it depends,still)2;malay girl isn't that picky as chinese does3:u can have bini-es after u enter islam4:potong helps to prevert dieseas and delay ur ejuaction(forgot the spelling) timeetc-etc...
someday i cant tahan call jabatan islam come catch her.i think is depends on the guys.i ll advice my fren no wan....
This is his entry for the contest: “My name is Nizam and I’m 26 years old this year and I’m married to a Chinese girl, her name is Margaret Soh, she is 23 this year. “My mind went blank, my heart was aching, it felt like millions of needle poking through my heart, I felt like dying. “When I saw she came out from a car, we ran to each other and I gave her a tight hug. “She cried awake every night, having nightmares and was traumatized. What I thought of is to have a family with her, to take care her for life. “Looking at her enduring the pain alone, the pain, the look on her face and she sleeps on the floor when she need to stand up to go toilet.
“We have a daughter name Nurshiyumie and it sounds like Japanese name. When I knew this girl (my wife) I was only 18 years old. “After a month of being separated, she finally came back to Singapore. She called me immediately and I told her to come to my office. “Since her parents couldn’t do anything, I held her tight, held her and I made a vow to make her my wife and take care of her until the day I was gone. I ask her ‘Will you marry me and have a kid with me? She was willing to marry me, give me her future and trust me. “Sometimes I even saw she cry in the middle of the night. “Sometimes, we even have to share one packet of rice together.
Nizam encountered a lot of difficulties while dating his Chinese partner, Margaret. I never felt so much happiness before I knew this girl. But the good times did not last and we got a serious dose of parental disapproval and judgmental side-eyes from our relatives. “She tried to escape from there and wanted to come back here, but she failed. “Her willingness made the decision to convert to Islam easier, it’s not about race.
From her parents disapproving their relationship to Margaret being sent overseas, the couple have gone through multiple ups and downs together but are now married and have a 5-year-old daughter. “When her parents got to know that she was dating me, a Malay guy that had nothing, they sent her overseas to avoid me seeing her. I called her every night when she was overseas to hear her voice. “Her relative kept away her passport and she actually tried to commit suicide. Nothing can describe how grateful I am to have a girlfriend like her staying by my side when I really had nothing. It’s about initiative and finally we were married, she put her trust all on me. We had to sleep on the floor in the living room where there is no more room for us. But she did not even complain with her pregnant stomach. “Until she given birth to our previous baby girl, she was natural birth.